Are you somebody who sees nothing but negativity? Are there times that even if the situation is something you should celebrate, you begin looking for things that will ruin the day? Are you an individual who gets easily mad at little and worthless things without a valid reason? Are you sometimes aware that you feel annoyed and angry when things do not go your way? Don’t worry. You are not alone. There are others like you that at some point, experience the same kinds of emotions. But the point here is, that kind of mentality and behavior is something that shouldn’t become part of your personality. There are better things to do than fuss around with all those negativity.
What’s Wrong With You?
Sure, you do not have enough cash on your wallet, and you do not live in a luxurious place. But it does not need to bother you. There are other people out there that are less fortunate than you are. Some of them are trying their best to cope up with their needs in life, and somehow, it is not an issue for them. You see, the thing that keeps you away from being happy is contentment. When you always want more, you become to need more. There is no point in giving you everything because you will still want the things that you can or cannot have. If you have not noticed, the problem here is the eagerness of life satisfaction. You desire more because you do not feel happy with small things around you. You more likely can’t sustain emotional stability because your state of mind focuses on things that entirely don’t matter.
The main reason for your unhappiness is your attitude towards what in front of you. You keep blaming everything and everyone around you for why you are not satisfied with your life, where in fact, it is you that has a problem. You always see fault in everyone. But honestly, you hate everything because you are sad. You complain a lot because you once felt neglected. You focus on mistakes because you try to live with perfection. You want more because you experienced having nothing. It is okay. You do not have to feel bad about it because it is your emotional issues. But that does not mean you have to stick in that condition forever. Try to explore what is entirely going on with you and stop searching for validation. No one needs that, and you don’t genuinely need that too. That is life. The way only to deal with it is accepting that it happened. From there, learn to move on and choose to become happy.
If you let things stay the exact negative way, you will end up miserable and alone. So before that happens, please do consider changing your behavior towards happiness. There are enough things you can find beauty in this world. It could be your family, friends, significant other, or yourself. Learn to appreciate what you have.